Yes, obviously the most important relationship is the one you with your Self ... I'm not going to debate you on that. But let's grow the picture a little bit. When you combine all the spiritual principles and ideas you've learned along the way, it becomes clear that the most important relationship you have is the one with the person who is standing right in front of you.
The past is just a fantasy now; no matter what happened before the moment you are in is irrelevant. Embrace the power of NOW. We live in a loving Universe that puts you exactly where you're suppose be without coincidence. So, whoever is standing in front of you is suppose to be there. The questions is: what are you going to do about it?
Whether it's your children or spouse, the barista at Starbucks, or a stranger in the elevator, you're interacting with your most valuable relationship because they're giving you the opportunity to give and receive Love.
Are you willing to take accept this mission? In order to do this successfully we must let go of the judgments and opinions that keep us out of our loving hearts. Dropping the game of good/bad propels us into a state of miracle readiness. It's also helpful to be present in the moment, which is challenging to do if you have your eyes locked on a the screen of your phone.
I invite you to do a divine experiment. Try this for a week and see how differently you move through the world. Each morning when you wake up, declare your willingness to be "miracle minded" and open to give and receive Love. When in public, keep the phone in your pocket unless someone calls you. Wait to return text messages until you're alone. Be available to see and connect with the people you're sharing the planet with. Remember, whomever is standing in front of you is your assignment, the Universe put you two together for a reason. Practice radical kindness throughout your day and see how differently the world shows up.
You don't have to say a word to be share Love. If you don't feel inspired to say anything to someone, just bless them and continue on your way. They'll feel it.
No more chance meetings, coincidences, or meaningless interactions; only perfect harmony filled with opportunity after opportunity to share Love. This is one way we'll start to see transformation at the level of our families, communities, and beyond.
Jesse Brune-Horan is a Spiritual teacher and happy living expert. He's the co-founder & Spiritual director of Inspire Spiritual Community, a non-profit organization supporting the LGBTQ+ community. He's the host of the podcast "LGBTQ+ and Spiritual", and co-host of the lifestyle series "Super Easy with Jesse and Alison." He lives and Loves in Los Angeles with his husband Christopher and their family.